This is seriously silly... I don't even know Spanish and I love to learn Japanese! Haha... whatever~

You Should Learn Spanish

For you, learning a language is about career advancement and communication. Knowing Spanish will bring you tons of possibilities for jobs and travel. Bárbaro!

Before I do this quiz, I thought the result would come out as "Closer To Friends" but then it came out differently. They are equally close to me. Thinking about it, I think it is true because both are equally important to me, only that I admit it, my friends know more about what is happening around me lately. I feel more comfortable talking about my problems with friends rather than my family but when I'm in deep trouble (and I mean real deep), I would turn to my family.

 

You Are Equally Close to Your Friends and Family

Depending on the situation, you can feel closer to your friends or your family. They each are valuable to you in their own ways, and you couldn't imagine living without either of them. Your friends and family aren't ideal, but you're happy to have so many great people in your life. At the end of the day, you're thankful for all your personal connections... flaws and all.

Are You Closer to Your Friends or Your Family?

to all Muslims all over the world, happy fasting. Make full use of this holy month. Be grateful we are still here to celebrate Ramadhan


Dapatkan Mesej Bergambar di Sini

Trust is something you should not give 100 percent to anyone or anything, except the six listed in Rukun Iman (for Muslims). No matter how long you have known a person or how close you are to him/her, always put in mind that you should not give your full trust.. Well, that's what I've learned from my 'Lesson of Life'. And one friend used to tell me to put only 30 percent trust in others and the remaining 70 percent to ourselves. I guess she's right and it hurts so much when someone breaks your trust - especially those who you love. Imagine how a daughter trusts her father but some father is stupid enough to break his daughter's trust by raping her. Friends? Some friends back-stab you even when you've given them enough trust. What I'm saying is, it's not wrong to give others our trust but we must be aware and alert of our surrounding. You might be given your trust to the wrong person.

When living together with one or more housemate/s, there are a lot of things to put in mind. We are all different individuals and we have different needs and personal liking and disliking. And so there are rules that need to be set up so that everybody would be happy living together. Here are some suggestions*:

1) Elect a house leader

2) Share the staples (coffee, milk, etc)


3) Insist on a RM100 damage security deposit

4) Divide storage space clearly

5) Insist on personal bathroom space

6) Insist on a personal reading light (sleep is important, don't disturb sleeping roomie)

7) No fixed line telephone (except for internet connection but should be agreed by all and make sure the phone is unplugged and locked up by House Leader)

8) Insist on personal utensils in the kitchen (except for common bowls & dishes)

9) Use alarm clocks with care (others might be disturbed if they are not ready to be woken up yet)

10) Distribute alone time (this is for those who share room, allocate days for each room member to use the room alone for personal things like meditation, examining cellulite or crying over boyfriends)

11) Divide work space fairly

12) Leave only one pair of shoes outside

13) Allot the laundry days (should be rotated among residents)

14) Allot laundry baskets (everyone should have their own labeled laundry baskets)

15) Keep personal trimmings personal

16) No visitors except parents

17) No candles or fires

18) Democratise common space (kitchen, hall, study area, porch - decision must be through voting process - wote should be equal)

19) Dressing tables are not for storage except for overnight stuffs like watches, glasses, religious amulets and coins which you will take away the next morning

20) All trash has a home (non-organic and non-biodegradable trash should be allowed in the bedrooms. other things could go to bathroom or kitchen garbage and sanitary pads should never ever being flush down the loo or else one morning you'll have to dig them wif your hands, mind you! And before being thrown away, the sanitary pads should be wrapped in newspaper)

21) Use personal garbage bins placed next to their beds

22) Everyone gets garbage duty (Yeah, hell...it's not fair right for only one person to  do the garbage duty while others just throw the trash in the trash bin. So make a schedule so that no one have their turn)


23) Clean toilet after every use (I always have this problem with my housemate. After I use the toilet I would make sure it is clean. Again, think about it. Everyone uses the toiet but only one or two person/s clean/s the toilet, it's not fair, is it?)

24) Air fresheners, potpourri and sweaty socks (everyone should all invest in air fresheners/potpourri and please, take away the smelling socks before entering the house


25) No damp towels in bedrooms

Tomorrow I'm going shopping. It's the best therapy really for a sad moment... But then I prefer to go with my girlfriends and not my family :-) heeeee...jangan marah!!

I'm at the moment is undergoing a 'Mending a Heart Broken' phase. All because of love. Yeah. Love is sweet when it is treated and pampered but when it is being manipulated, you can feel it is bitter. But hang on, I don't mean I'm going to give up on love. What I meant is that if I have to and want to, in the future, I will always be careful with the people I give the responsibility to take care of my heart. After all it has been broken quite a few times now and it is of course very, very, very fragile. I hope Karma is doing its' job. What goes around comes around.